“Be mindful when it comes to your words. A string of some that don’t mean much to you may stick with someone for a lifetime.” — Virtues For Life
I find it intriguing that “words” and “sword” contain the exact same letters. Words, much like swords, have the power to harm, wound, or even break a person’s spirit.
Just yesterday, I received an email that truly shook me. Though the comments weren’t directed at me personally, their impact was lasting—they were harsh, critical, and served no constructive purpose. Rather than offering helpful feedback, this individual’s words were destructive. And that is not okay.
As I reflect on this experience, I recognize the seed of bitterness trying to take root in my heart. But bitterness is ultimately toxic and self-destructive. So, while I acknowledge my emotions and the pain caused, I refuse to let them define or destroy me.
And the scars left by her words will hopefully remind me to be mindful of my own words—to pause before speaking, to consider the manner in which I communicate, and to choose silence over any words that might wound or discourage others around me.
Words that dishearten or words that inspire—the decision lies with each of us.
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Published by Renee Srch
Born to an American father and a British mother, Renée Srch grew up in France where she obtained her French Baccalaureate. She attended IBME in Switzerland, graduating with a degree in Missions and Theology.
She is a wife, a mother to three boys, and a critter mom to two rescue dogs and fourteen rescue cats. Renée has led and taught writing workshops through the Ozarks Chapter of American Christian Writers and is currently a member of the Springfield Writer’s Guild and Sleuth's Ink, in Springfield, Mo.
Renée has published thirteen books under her given name. She also writes suspense novels under pen name R.J. Dawkins. She writes across genres and for all age groups. Her brand is Wholesome Books for the Whole Family. Besides her own books, she has contributed to four Chicken Soup for the Soul books, two anthologies, and published numerous magazine articles. She has received several awards, among which was an award from Writer’s Digest for her personal essay, Treasures from the Sea, and Global Library Award and Book Cover Award for Miracle Moments; Helping the Rescued Become the Rescuers. Her children’s book, It’s Dark in the Ark, was a number one bestseller on Amazon.
You can learn more about her work at www.ReneeVajkoSrch.com, https://www.facebook.com/ReneeVajkoSrch
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